Dear Future Husband,
Ha, this is a little weird. This is for everyone to see, not just you, but I'm going to try to ignore that fact. So here goes...
As a little girl I've always dreamed of what it would be like to have someone hold my hand, maybe kiss my cheek, then eventually meet at the aisle one day. I've always wondered what that would be like, I find myself wondering still. But recently, I've come to the realization that those things aren't the most important.
Mom and Dad have always shown me love, and I see the love they have for each other. Both sets of my grandparents love each other, and I can see it in their eyes. My great grandparents love/d each other; they show/ed that love to me. Out of all the things they've taught me, and the one thing common between their successful relationships, is the fact that they kept God first.
You see, love isn't just you and I. It's sort of like a triangle. God is placed in the center. I don't want it any other way, and I won't settle for any less because I know how God sees me in His eyes. I am full of worth, and so are you. Of course, you know this, because God prepared you for me. He's a good God. It's the waiting part that gets me to tapping my foot sometimes, but I know if I hold on He's going to hand you to me and it's going to be absolutely worth the wait.
I pray that you will always know how much I love you, but most of all I pray you will always know how much God loves you. He's going to give you so many things that I will be incapable of.
I might disappoint you a little with my lack of interest with sports, but you'll have to get used to that. I like ballet though...hehehe. I appreciate all that you're going to do to support me, and support our lives together. So on days when I get grumps...know that I truly love you, and I'm so very thankful that God sent me you.
I'm in love with the fact that God designed us for each other. I cannot wait to meet you and start the life God has made for you and I. Until then, I have work to do (I still will when you come around though lolz). I'm to share My Savior with others, and I'm to grow closer with Him. I'm in love with God and the fact that He loves me too. There will be no one better for me than Him, but I'm glad He decided to send me a wonderful companion such as yourself.
I pray for your heart. I pray for your soul. And I pray for your mind.
All my love,
your future wife <3
PSSSTTT! THE MEANING BEHIND THIS BLOGPOST:
So often we scroll through social media and wish our perfect knight in shining armor would show up at our doorstep just like “hers” did. (*Guilty is charged*). So often we find ourselves searching for a boyfriend to mess around with, not intending to marry him some day. We toy with hearts and it’s so sad.
I believe in the relationships where God is put first. I’ve seen the success in other relationships where they’ve placed God above all else and are content and full of joy. I believe that even when we haven’t met our significant other, we still ought to pray for them, because their lives are important.
The point I pray you get out of this blogpost is that God has someone prepared for you. He’s working on your life and your relationship, but until then, you must pray hard and in detail. Live a righteous life yourself and learn to grow closer with God. I guarantee that if you trust in God’s timing and wait it out, God will bring a beautiful relationship into your life.
I'm learning to trust in this as well. I hope you do too.
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Hi there! I'm Katlyn Grace and welcome to the advice section. Here we get real. These blogposts are written from my heart to yours. And I pray that they encourage your heart and bring joy to your soul. I warmly invite you to join me on this journey with the Lord!